| What happens to you when you feel anxious? You | | | | racing thoughts or actions you were performing just |
| may find that you are having heart palpitations, sweaty | | | | before you heard or saw the word "STOP". |
| palms, feel flushed, or are suffering from racing | | | | The key here is that you just shut down that cyclical |
| thoughts. You may even think that you are having a | | | | pattern of thoughts even for a second as you |
| heart attack if the anxiety is overwhelming. Many | | | | pondered the word "STOP". As you go back to |
| people in my practice ask me how to stop that | | | | whatever you were doing just before imagining the |
| seemingly un-ending road of fear and panic. It seems | | | | word "STOP", you are still training yourself to be more |
| as though once you start on that road, it is difficult to | | | | in control. What we know about anxiety is that the |
| pull off it. | | | | premise is one of fear. Fear is about feeling out of |
| This is quite understandable if you understand the | | | | control of what will happen to us. However, once you |
| biology of anxiety. Anxiety served as a protective | | | | employ the thought stopping technique, you were in |
| purpose for us during the times of the saber-toothed | | | | control of stopping your racing thoughts, even for a |
| tiger. These animals lived roughly about 33.7 million to | | | | second. |
| 9,000 years ago and were quite deadly to humans. | | | | The thought stopping technique is as easy as what I |
| Humans developed an anxiety reaction to these | | | | described above. It is a way to interrupt your racing |
| animals to protect them from being eaten. This is | | | | thought patterns. Now if you find yourself going back |
| known as the fight or flight syndrome and it is a | | | | to your intruding thoughts, imagine the word "STOP" |
| primitive reaction that we have developed to protect | | | | again. Imagine a stop sign or repeat the word out loud |
| us. However, we are no longer in danger of the | | | | over and over. Again, you may find yourself going |
| saber-toothed tiger, but our well developed anxiety | | | | back to your racing thoughts, but this time you shut |
| reactions are still present. They serve a useful purpose | | | | that process down for a few seconds. Every time |
| in times of real imminent danger. But many people find | | | | you do this, you are re-training your brain to interrupt |
| that they are suffering from anxiety that is not related | | | | the seemingly un-ending cycle of racing thoughts that |
| to real imminent harm. | | | | are creating a lot of your anxiety symptoms. |
| Now you ask, "How do we stop those racing thoughts | | | | Thought stopping techniques are very useful tools to |
| and adrenaline-like feelings so that we can stop | | | | help you when you feel that your thoughts are out of |
| worrying and be more productive?" Well one of the | | | | control. If you are still struggling with anxiety to the point |
| tools you can use is called the thought-stopping | | | | that you are not being productive in your life, you |
| technique. It is quite simple and many people laugh | | | | should have a full psychological and medical evaluation |
| when they first hear it, but it really does work. | | | | to see if there is another reason for your anxiety. |
| Imagine a stop sign. It is red and white and has eight | | | | Some people need medications and others need |
| sides. In the middle of that octagonal shaped sign is the | | | | on-going psychotherapy or both. |
| word "STOP". Now imagine that word "STOP" being | | | | What ever it is that you choose to do, you need to |
| said out loud to you by either you or someone else, or | | | | take back the control in your life and understand that |
| printed on a piece of paper right in front of you. Usually | | | | there are some processes that you do have control |
| you will stop what you are doing or thinking even for a | | | | over. Thought stopping techniques will help you begin |
| second and wonder, "What do I have to stop for?", | | | | to put yourself back on that road of control. |
| "What is going on?" Then you may go back to your | | | | |